Marriage and the Art of Communication

I'm sure we've all heard the adage thatshould be aiming to create in each other. You are
communication is largely non verbal, it's about soa team and neither of you can complete the circle
much more that just basic talking. In fact, it's trueon your own.
to say that the vast majority of communication isUntil you really know your partner you'll each have
done not through words but through bodyto do a lot of double checking to see if how you
language, expressions, atmospheres and attitudes.are interpreting each others actions is accurate. It
What is a warm cuddle in silence communicating?can be very easy to cross wires and
A whole lot.communicate to your partner in unintentional
If nothing else you must realize that your abilityways or to be totally and completely
to effectively communicate with your partner in amisunderstood. I'm sure we've all experienced
marriage is so important that all else ultimatelythat.
depends on it. You must consistently strive toLooking back you can probably think of
improve how well you are able to clearlyarguments which have started solely on the
communicate and also learn to read what yourstrength of misunderstanding within the
partner is communicating to you. This kind of carerelationship. The key is to actively want to know
and attention will create a circle in the relationshipyour partner and to use this desire to genuinely
which constantly feeds and rewards itself.listen to them. If your partner is willing to return
When you feel that someone 'understands you'the same back to you, you're both going to feel a
the effect and the feelings it inspires are full ofwhole lot stronger in the marriage and a deeper
happiness and genuine joy, it's this feeling that yousense of love.