How to Choose the Right Wedding Band

You've heard the "4 Cs" of smart diamond buying.braided wedding bands are tougher than they
But what about the wedding band? Weddingappear and will be fine under most conditions.
bands are not the most expensive weddingDesign Band or Designer Name Brand
purchase you will make, not like spending betweenMost wedding bands that are on the market
$1,000-$10,000 on that beautiful sparkling diamondtoday are actually not designer name brand rings,
rock. You may not spend a lot of timeyet they are, in my opinion, the same quality as
researching the wedding band purchase, but manymost designer name brand rings. The difference
people end up wearing their wedding band morewith a designer name brand and a generic version
often and on a day to day basis compared tois mainly the price. Most design bands range
their engagement ring.between $300-$350 vs. $600-$800 for the exact
Make an informed decision when purchasing yourring made by a known designer name.
wedding band.However, if paying 2-3 times more is not a
- Do you prefer a traditional plain wedding band orsignificant difference to you, you may want to
a design wedding band?consider a name brand simply for the security or
- Do you want to budget in for a designer namestatus that the name you purchase may give
brand or do you prefer to forgo the brand nameyou. In shopping for a wedding band, whether it is
and opt out for essentially the same ring withouta designer name or not, make sure you
the "name", thereby significantly reducing costs?understand your wedding or jewelry store's
- Pricing Your Wedding Band.policies, warranties, and guarantees. Often, the
Plain Wedding Bandsgeneric brand will offer you the same security,
You may want to consider a plain band if youquality, and warranties. So why spend the extra?
prefer a simple design or are not a big "jewelryYellow Gold, White Gold, or Two-Tone
person". As a jeweler, I often get womenThis too is mostly a personal choice, but there
shopping for their husbands wedding bands whoare a few things to consider in selecting your
are considering a plain band because their husbandwedding bands' color or metal type.
"does not like jewelry". I usually recommend aWhite gold is often more suitable for those who
narrower plain wedding band, such as a white goldare not normally big jewelry wearers. White gold
or yellow gold 4mm wide band. Although a wideris also somewhat more contemporary, although
6mm, 7mm, or 8mm band is standard for mosttrends suggest that yellow gold may be coming
men, someone who does not wear a lot ofback strong into fashion. Ultimately, whether you
jewelry may feel more comfortable in a narrowchoose yellow or white gold should depend on
band. (Wedding bands are usually measured inyour personal preference, rather than following
millimeters. A 4mm band is approx. ¼" wide).any trend, since trends come and go and you plan
If someone is looking for something with a littleto wear your ring forever!
more of a design, but still wants a simpler band, IYou may also want to consider two-tone gold.
may even steer them towards a more subtleTwo-tone wedding rings are an excellent
design, such as a hammered wedding band.compromise between subtle and rich tones and
Hammered bands are still understated, but a littlethey serve one additional purpose that people
more exciting than a traditional plain band.tend to overlook.
Design BandTwo-tone wedding bands give you the flexibility
There are many types of design wedding bandsof both yellow and white gold colors so that you
to choose from, such as braided wedding bands,can match a variety of other jewelry with your
hammered design bands, paisley bands, and otherwedding jewelry. If you buy a white gold wedding
unique designs, such as a Celtic wedding band.band, all of your future jewelry purchases will
The type of design band wedding you choose is atend to be white gold. Wearing yellow gold or
personal choice. There is nothing scientific ortwo-tone with your white gold ring may clash. The
practical in selecting a design wedding band othersame can be said of pure yellow gold. But with a
than primarily deciding what type of design youtwo-tone wedding band, you can wear an all
simply like.yellow gold bracelet or watch, for example, and
The only practical considerations that you mayinterchange jewelry and colors. This adds great
want to make in selecting a wedding band withversatility to your jewelry line-up.
designs is in understanding that trends come andPrice Benchmarks
go and you will be wearing and looking at theUse the below benchmarks to assess if your
design hopefully forever. The other considerationselected jeweler is charging you too much or if
is in deciding whether you will wear your ring on atheir prices are reasonable.
daily basis and what kind of wear and tear yourExpect to spend between $100-$150 for a plain,
ring can safely sustain. This usually depends on thetraditional wedding band.
type of work or career or regular hobbies.Expect to spend approx. $300 for a standard, but
Do you work with your hands a lot? Do you dohigh quality design wedding band.
construction work or do you have an office jobExpect to spend between $600-$800 for a
that is not taxing on your hands? In purchasing adesigner name brand.
design band, if you are planning to wear your ringRemember, you may not want to dish out the
to a job that is physically demanding you mayadditional cost for a designer name brand when
want to consider a hammered design band or ayou can find virtually the same ring without the
similarly rugged design that can withstand wear"name". Above all, this should be a choice that you
and tear. You may want to stay away from amake yourself or with your spouse. Forget about
braided wedding band, for example, if you are atrends and think long-term. $300 over 50 years
police officer and want to wear your ring on theof your life is less than a penny a day! Don't get
job! If you are "outdoorsy" and rugged, you maycaught up too much in the price. Opt for the ring
want a more solid band with less design that couldthat you really want. You plan to wear your ring
get damaged.forever.
Keep in mind these are extreme cases. Most